I suck.

I can't sleep. I can't read. I can't draw and I can't write. I'm stuck in this vortex of not being able to indulge in the things I love. All inspiration and motivation have left my body as if I were rung out dry. The worst part about this is I have put up streamers…

I Came Out To My Dad. Oops

I'm just going to dive right into this. I came out to my dad by accident. By accident? Yes by accident. Story time! So every second week I go to my dad's house to clean it and he pays me for it. I went there as per usual and before I start cleaning usually I…

Toxic Things

I wasn't intending on making a blog post today. But here I am. I've kind of shied away from writing blog posts because frankly there is not enough time in the day to keep up with everything (reading, writing, drawing, making videos for youtube, working two jobs, while still trying to maintain the small social…

My biggest fear (own voice novel)

I skipped last week's blog post because this was a topic I wanted to talk about but I couldn't find the right words. (For a writer that sure happens to me a lot.) I wrote an own voice novel. *Gasp.* I cowrote it with Chelsea Lauren actually, so it's only a partial own voice because…

Are Aces “Queer” Enough?

The realization that I'm not straight blows my mind. I know it shouldn't. But it feels so weird to me. Mainly because I am also heteromantic and only date the opposite sex. So it doesn't feel like I'm not straight. Not to mention when I come out to people who don't understand asexuality I find…

Aesthetic Attraction Isn’t Sexual Attraction

OR ISSS ITTT THE SAME THING? No. No it really isn't. I won't hold back when I think someone is attractive (literally ANYONE. Guy, Girl etc.) I will tell them. I will throw compliments around like glitter. But I got called out a little while back because I had tweeted saying I don't find anyone…

Asexuals and Sex

*Stares at the screen thinking long and hard* Hmm... This is a tricky topic because it will definitely differ from person to person. But I've been faced with the conversation of sex as an asexual a lot lately so I guess I should talk about my own personal thoughts and experiences on the subject. GAH…

INTERNET FRIENDS ARE REAL! That is all.

I interrupt my weekly blog posts about asexuality to bring you a topic that MAKES ME VERY ANGRY. Plug your ears while I scream at the top of my lungs. So let me give you some insight on what has caused my anger on this subject to be so large and aggressive and scream worthy.…

Coming Out – An Option not An Obligation

Here is a little disclaimer before I get started: Coming out is different for everyone. Everyone has different experiences and circumstances and I am merely speaking on my own person feelings on the topic. Ugh. I hate people. First off no one is under any obligation to come out to ANYONE. You don't have to…

Sex Repulsed VS Asexuality

Helllooo there! Here's a fun topic to talk about: the difference between being sex repulsed and asexual. This was a topic that came up while I was writing my current WIP. (WE OFFICIALLY FINISHED THE FIRST DRAFT BY THE WAY) My main character Julian is an asexual and throughout our story it is repeated that…